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Anal Sex isn’t really a subject to bring up at brunch with the girls. Despite all of the ‘kinky fuckery’ featured in 50 Shades being a popular topic on the train, waiting in line for a coffee, hell, even on the morning news, anal sex is still a sexual taboo, because really, how do you casually mention butt sex with your friends?
Newsflash: not talking about something doesn’t mean it isn’t a reality. In fact, not talking about anal sex can actually cause misinformation, ignorance and the inability to recognise that you may actually have the facts all wrong.
So listen up, we are going to get into the ins and outs of anal sex!
Yeah, it kind of does hurt!
If you’re thinking about jumping in head first, think again. Unlike the vagina, anal sex is something you have to work into. There’s no go hard or go home about it. So go slowly at first, maybe start with a mini butt plug or a finger or two. As you build up the tolerance (and hopefully the enjoyment) you can get into the bigger and better!
Lube – not a maybe, it’s a must!
If you want to make the experience satisfying and not a horror story, lube is a necessity. It really is the only safe way in – lube for him – lube for you. Lube all around!
A rip-snorting good time!
If you think lube isn’t for you, think again. If a penis is forced into your butt, it can rip. Read step 1 and 2 again. Go in prepared!
Yes, size does matter.
Try and force a grapefruit through a needle. It just doesn’t work.
If there is only one time you’re going to be happy about a smaller penis, anal is it. Positive thinking.
Front door, back door.
Step 5 – very important. His penis should NOT enter your vagina right after. Why? Bacteria. UTIs. Vaginal infections. Nuff said.
Deep breath in. Relex. The more relaxed you are, the easier it will be to enter.
Breath in. Breath out.
Anal sex can be kind of scary but the more relaxed you are, and the less focussed you are on the impending pain, the more enjoyable to whole experience will be.
What requires more trust in a relationship than letting your partner go at your butt? If this is something you both want to try, take it easy, enjoy yourselves and take the time and care to build up to the deed.
You might not get there. But if you do, it will be amazing. Don’t be disillusioned, if at first you don’t succeed, try and try again!
There you go. You might be wondering what all the fuss is about. Let’s face it, anal sex isn’t for everyone. But give it a go. You might get turned on. It might be a never-again experience. But you won’t know if you don’t try.